Oh how I wish that expression read, “Wisdom rushes in…”. In this fast paced world, we want answers now. In fact, if we are really honest, we want answers yesterday! However, good answers are usually never instant. Those decisions we make out of impatience usually do not represent our finest moments. As the expression reads, “only fools rush in.” In other words, our wisest decisions usually come with some time. They are never rushed or arrived at hastily. They are mulled over, tested, digested and then finally, they come to be. Please be encouraged- if you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and don’t know exactly what you want to do, it is ok. In fact, taking some time to figure it out could even be called wise.
There are some options before you, and despite what others may say, none of them require an immediate decision. Please give yourself the benefit of time. Learn about the options that interest you most- ask good questions, talk to your loved ones, and then, sit on your decision for a bit of time so you know it’s one you feel is best for you and those involved. We are here to help during this process. We will never rush you and you can come back to Hope as many times as you need. Call us at 652-8343 to make an appointment. You Are More than a fool. Read more...
22
May
2012
Fools rush in…
Written by hopepc,
Posted in Abortion, Adoption, consequences, fear, Options, Parenting, Perspective, Pregnant | Leave a comment
05
Oct
2011
Considering Adoption
Tags: Adoption, options
Written by hopepc, Posted in Adoption, Options, Perspective, Pregnant, Uncategorized | Leave a comment
Written by hopepc, Posted in Adoption, Options, Perspective, Pregnant, Uncategorized | Leave a comment
You are pregnant and you don’t want to be. Well, you are not alone. We exist to support you and help you think through your options. Adoption is one option that is sometimes not even considered. Yet, it can be a huge blessing to so many. Below is a sweet “Recipe for Adoption Success”. You know the reality of placing a child for adoption is not easy. It is a difficult decision and takes a great amount of bravery, maturity and selflessness. Whenever you put someone else’s needs above our own, you are acting in pure love. If the thought of adoption has even crossed your mind, then know that we at Hope are willing to listen and support you as you work through your feelings.
Recipe for Adoption Success
2 cups of conversation, it’s good to talk about your feelings
1 cup of listening to what your inner voice is saying
3 cups of honesty, be honest with yourself
1/2 cup of reality, be clear with your expectations of yourself
1 tsp of help, don’t be afraid to ask for counseling
1 1/4 cup of feelings, yours not your parents or friends
1 cup of journaling, writing down your thoughts
3 cups of understanding, that you will have good days and bad
3 tsp. each of long term goals and support
a pinch of grief, it’s normal
Adoptive Parents, hand picked by you
A Lifetime of Pride, in yourself and your decision
Mix together conversation, honesty, help and listening. Fold in reality and support.
In a separate bowl mix planning, feelings, journaling, understanding, and grief. Combine the two. Add the long term goals and pride. Pour mixture into baking dish, season for 9 months. Top with love for your child.
Although this recipe is sweet and light, we know that adoption is a serious journey and is not decided over night. Remember, the choice is yours. Know the facts, be informed, and take your time to make the very best decision for yourself and baby. We can help get you resources and be there to listen. Call us at (435) 652-8343.
Recipe provided by So I was Thinking about Adoption by Mardie Caldwell. Read more...
